{"id":1579,"date":"2021-11-14T03:50:47","date_gmt":"2021-11-14T03:50:47","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/helpusdefend.com\/?page_id=1579"},"modified":"2022-02-09T20:11:56","modified_gmt":"2022-02-09T20:11:56","slug":"podcast-episode-3-companion","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/helpusdefend.com\/?page_id=1579","title":{"rendered":"Podcast &#8211; Episode 3 Companion"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-page\" data-elementor-id=\"1579\" class=\"elementor elementor-1579\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-9397c8a elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"9397c8a\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-4e37307\" data-id=\"4e37307\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-10aae3e elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"10aae3e\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-xl\">Listen to this web page! <\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-cd7f29c elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"cd7f29c\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>This page was narrated by Mohid.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-49b8b05 elementor-widget elementor-widget-wp-widget-media_audio\" data-id=\"49b8b05\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"wp-widget-media_audio.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<audio class=\"wp-audio-shortcode\" id=\"audio-1579-1\" preload=\"none\" style=\"width: 100%;\" controls=\"controls\"><source type=\"audio\/mpeg\" src=\"https:\/\/helpusdefend.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/Episode_3_Dark_Side_ofthe_Web_Companion_Narration.mp3?_=1\" \/><source type=\"audio\/mpeg\" src=\"https:\/\/helpusdefend.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/Episode_3_Dark_Side_ofthe_Web_Companion_Narration.mp3?_=1\" \/><a href=\"https:\/\/helpusdefend.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/Episode_3_Dark_Side_ofthe_Web_Companion_Narration.mp3\">https:\/\/helpusdefend.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/Episode_3_Dark_Side_ofthe_Web_Companion_Narration.mp3<\/a><\/audio>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-506b7eb elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"506b7eb\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>\u00a0<\/p><p dir=\"ltr\" style=\"line-height: 1.38; margin-top: 0pt; margin-bottom: 0pt;\"><span style=\"font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; background-color: transparent; font-weight: 400; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;\">Updated: November 13, 2021<\/span><\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><p dir=\"ltr\" style=\"line-height: 1.38; margin-top: 0pt; margin-bottom: 0pt;\"><span style=\"font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; background-color: transparent; font-weight: 400; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;\"><b>Episode Background: <\/b>In the episode entitled \u201c<i>Underage Siren<\/i>\u201d a 14-year-old girl, a daughter of a police officer (Who works in of all units, the online child exploitation unit) is discovered to be not only using a fake ID but has posted herself online on #1Fans (which is a spoof on OnlyFans). OnlyFans is a subscription-based website, known for pay-per-month racy adult content directly from creators to fans. Sites like OnlyFans gives creators an attractive way to monetize content that can be created very simply.\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><p dir=\"ltr\" style=\"line-height: 1.38; margin-top: 0pt; margin-bottom: 0pt;\"><span style=\"font-size: 13.999999999999998pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; background-color: transparent; font-weight: 400; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;\">What you Should Know About OnlyFans or Similar Sites:<\/span><\/p><p dir=\"ltr\" style=\"line-height: 1.38; margin-top: 0pt; margin-bottom: 0pt;\"><span style=\"font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; background-color: transparent; font-weight: bold; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;\">Online grooming and\/or human trafficking <\/span><span style=\"font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; background-color: transparent; font-weight: 400; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;\">&#8211;\u00a0 The site offers creators the ability to post content and allows for typical social features like commenting, sharing and interaction of all users. Some cases recently have surfaced of boyfriends exploiting their partners into creating content for the platform to increase household revenue. Generally, age and identity verification is poor on these sites and on platforms like Patreon, they offer no verification except for asking a person\u2019s birthday and email address. Posting content on sites like this will undoubtedly invite comments from patrons and underage persons may be faced with an overwhelming amount of attention and a variety of requests from users. Requests such as meeting up, taking money for sex or other forms of exploitation can easily occur on these platforms.\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><p dir=\"ltr\" style=\"line-height: 1.38; margin-top: 0pt; margin-bottom: 0pt;\"><span style=\"font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; background-color: transparent; font-weight: bold; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;\">Fake Profiles<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; background-color: transparent; font-weight: 400; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;\"> &#8211; OnlyFans and other similar sites are increasingly facing scrutiny for allowing minors on their sites who allegedly have used fake ID\u2019s or forged documents to set up accounts. Account holders on OnlyFans may also not be the person in the content. While an account may have been <\/span><span style=\"font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; background-color: transparent; font-weight: 400; font-style: italic; font-variant: normal; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;\">approved<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; background-color: transparent; font-weight: 400; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;\"> in a legitimate fashion, content creators can post as often as they wish and may use content of others (not licensed or used with permission).\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><p dir=\"ltr\" style=\"line-height: 1.38; margin-top: 0pt; margin-bottom: 0pt;\"><span style=\"font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; background-color: transparent; font-weight: bold; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;\">Explicit Content <\/span><span style=\"font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; background-color: transparent; font-weight: 400; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;\">&#8211; While there is a significant risk to those producing (or wanting to produce) content on websites like these, it can\u2019t be overstated that young people may also have a desire to patronize websites like these. It may be thought a teen can handle the emotional or psychological impact of viewing copious amounts of pornography but studies have consistently shown that sexually explicit content on the developing brain can severely impact on relationships, communication skills and overall well-being. Users of this kind of online content also need a source of payment to view content and sometimes this can be as simple as a PayPal account or some services may accept bank cards. Addiction to this kind of content can be easily understood and payments for consuming sexual content online can easily add up, especially when auto-renew for monthly subscriptions are almost always enabled by default.\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><p dir=\"ltr\" style=\"line-height: 1.38; margin-top: 0pt; margin-bottom: 0pt;\"><span style=\"font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; background-color: transparent; font-weight: bold; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;\">Distorted views of reality &#8211; <\/span><span style=\"font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; background-color: transparent; font-weight: 400; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;\">Most porn generally portrays a glamorous and attractive version of life.\u00a0 Young minds can be impacted by viewing filtered\/photoshopped imagery consistently and this may affect self worth, self-esteem and distorted views of reality. Consistently viewing or consuming adult content may be encouraging to younger people to create sexual content similar to those seen and may detach themselves from healthy relationships.\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><p dir=\"ltr\" style=\"line-height: 1.38; margin-top: 0pt; margin-bottom: 0pt;\"><span style=\"font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; background-color: transparent; font-weight: bold; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;\">Criminal Content<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; background-color: transparent; font-weight: 400; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;\"> &#8211; While taking a chance in viewing or creating content for sites like OnlyFans, laws may be broken and criminal consequences for viewing or sharing child pornography is a risk. More and more young people are being charged for distribution or creating child pornography which can carry very lengthy jail terms.\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><p dir=\"ltr\" style=\"line-height: 1.38; margin-top: 0pt; margin-bottom: 0pt;\"><span style=\"font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; background-color: transparent; font-weight: bold; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;\">Stolen Content<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; background-color: transparent; font-weight: 400; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;\"> &#8211; While subscription sites like OnlyFans offer the idea of a picturesque\u00a0 relationship with patrons, some users may take content without permission and share it freely outside of the site. In the context of some adult creators, this may not be looked at as a bad thing although some underage creators may falsely believe that content placed on these platforms can be secure from theft and reuse elsewhere.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p><h1 dir=\"ltr\" style=\"line-height: 1.38; margin-top: 20pt; margin-bottom: 6pt;\"><span style=\"font-size: 13.999999999999998pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; background-color: transparent; font-weight: 400; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;\">Safety Tips:<\/span><\/h1><p dir=\"ltr\" style=\"line-height: 1.38; margin-top: 0pt; margin-bottom: 0pt;\"><span style=\"font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; background-color: transparent; font-weight: bold; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;\">Talk with your child<\/span><\/p><p dir=\"ltr\" style=\"line-height: 1.38; margin-top: 0pt; margin-bottom: 0pt;\"><span style=\"font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; background-color: transparent; font-weight: 400; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;\">Talk to your child regularly about their sexuality. Some experts suggest having conversations about porn when children are young. This might help to destigmatize pornography at a later age. Regular conversations about sex, sexuality and pornography may help your child in building stronger communication skills with you. If your child is curious about sex or sexuality, having them hide their desires may be harmful to their psyche. Would you rather your child learn about sex from you, or the internet? An open line of communication to your child will also help determine if they are more susceptible to self-esteem issues which can lead to them wanting to be desired for superficial qualities.\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><p dir=\"ltr\" style=\"line-height: 1.38; margin-top: 0pt; margin-bottom: 0pt;\"><span style=\"font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; background-color: transparent; font-weight: bold; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;\">Parental Controls\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p dir=\"ltr\" style=\"line-height: 1.38; margin-top: 0pt; margin-bottom: 0pt;\"><span style=\"font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; background-color: transparent; font-weight: 400; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;\">Ensure spaces in your home have adequate controls for accessing this kind of content. Use parental control settings like Apple\u2019s \u201cScreentime\u201d feature.\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><p dir=\"ltr\" style=\"line-height: 1.38; margin-top: 0pt; margin-bottom: 0pt;\"><span style=\"font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; background-color: transparent; font-weight: bold; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;\">Discuss Stranger-Danger Often<\/span><\/p><p dir=\"ltr\" style=\"line-height: 1.38; margin-top: 0pt; margin-bottom: 0pt;\"><span style=\"font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; background-color: transparent; font-weight: 400; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;\">Highlight risks of meeting up or engaging in social media like OnlyFans. Make sure if you aren\u2019t the trusted adult they can go to talk about these kinds of issues, that at minimum you know who that trusted adult might be.\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><p dir=\"ltr\" style=\"line-height: 1.38; margin-top: 0pt; margin-bottom: 0pt;\"><span style=\"font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; background-color: transparent; font-weight: bold; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;\">Help your child set boundaries<\/span><\/p><p dir=\"ltr\" style=\"line-height: 1.38; margin-top: 0pt; margin-bottom: 0pt;\"><span style=\"font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; background-color: transparent; font-weight: 400; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;\">Talk to children about finances and how to manage them and monitor their spending habits. Large spending sprees with no recognizable source of income can be an indicator that a child may be moonlighting as a content creator like this. Peer pressure can push teens to create accounts like these and to self-exploit themselves. Having an \u2018of\u2019 (OnlyFans account) is a joke among younger demographics but can be taken very seriously by some. Talk about legal consequences of creating content like this (even if it\u2019s not about OnlyFans type sites), as kids more and more are being faced with sexually explicit conversations on the playground. Filming a peer while being sexually active with them is increasingly becoming normalized even if the intent isn\u2019t to share or post on sites like these. Social workers and psychological support may be necessary and make sure this kind of help isn\u2019t stigmatized.\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><p dir=\"ltr\" style=\"line-height: 1.38; margin-top: 0pt; margin-bottom: 0pt;\"><span style=\"font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; background-color: transparent; font-weight: bold; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;\">Help build their future<\/span><\/p><p dir=\"ltr\" style=\"line-height: 1.38; margin-top: 0pt; margin-bottom: 0pt;\"><span style=\"font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; background-color: transparent; font-weight: 400; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;\">A child may actively seek out sex work like this if they feel they have no desirable skills otherwise and are looking for fast cash. Help forge a future with them where their dreams and hopes can be achieved and supported in a way that is more attractive than this kind of self-exploitation. Career counselling, tutoring, internships or other types of support may be good avenues to explore.\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p><br \/><br \/><br \/><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-ee19904 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"ee19904\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-medium\">Watch episode 3 of Dark Side of the Web NOW!<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-b1115ce elementor-widget elementor-widget-video\" data-id=\"b1115ce\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-settings=\"{&quot;youtube_url&quot;:&quot;https:\\\/\\\/www.youtube.com\\\/watch?v=Vub-FyXUUC4&quot;,&quot;video_type&quot;:&quot;youtube&quot;,&quot;controls&quot;:&quot;yes&quot;}\" data-widget_type=\"video.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-wrapper elementor-open-inline\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-video\"><\/div>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Listen to this web page! 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